When we are together with a guy for years, we sometimes get the feeling that we’ve found ‘the one’… Right, girls? While many of us girls may feel that rush to marry our Mr. Right, some guys (not all of them) like to take their own sweet time when it comes to a lifelong commitment. We found a few girls who answered on Quora about how to deal with a situation where your guy does love you but is not completely ready to get married yet. Read them here!
1. ‘Just means he needs more time to settle down with his career, have a stable job and then get married.’ – Well, yeah, that’s a good enough reason!
Adrita Dass answers on Quora: Just means he needs more time to settle down with his career, have a stable job and then get married . Which is a good thing. Definitely should understand him and try to work things out.
2. ‘The thing is that guy is not ready to accept the responsibilities which comes with a marriage.’ – And it is a BIG responsibility at that.
Kasturi Utekar answers on Quora: For those who watch FRIENDS may be he is being Chandler over there. See the thing is that guy is not ready to accept the responsibilities which comes with a marriage. The only thing you can do is keep a regular check on his behaviour to understand what his stand is or communicate with him and ask why he loves you and is not ready for marriage.
3. ‘Talk to him, ask him, continue loving him and based on his answer support him.’ – Understanding is the key to a happy relationship, right?
Anonymous answers on Quora: There can be many reasons behind saying no for marriage, some of them are. He wants time, he is not serious about you, he is afraid of society/ parents/ responsibilities or he is seeing somebody else.
Talk to him ask him, continue loving him and based on his answer support him. Please be prepared you might get hurt too. Try to be mentally strong.
4. ‘If there are problems and arguments over the top in a relationship, then you should give it a second thought.’ – A well-thought decision is a must when it comes to marriage!
Sakshi Sodhi answers on Quora: Totally depends upon the situation. If your relationship is smooth and growing with ease, then, it might be considered as a fruitful relationship and can move on to the next level called ‘Marriage’. But if there are problems and arguments over the top in a relationship, then you should give it a second thought.
5. ‘Instead to trying to fix up a date for marriage trying fixing up the reason for which he is not ready.’ – Yes, we totally agree!
Sri Krish answers on Quora: Instead to trying to fix up a date for marriage trying fixing up the reason for which he is not ready. Try working on issues which makes him to procrastinate marriage. If his reasons are genuine then try talking to your parents and make them understand.
You can read the full thread here on Quora.
If you’re in a similar situation, we hope reading these answers helped you!
