We hail from the land of Kamasutra, but still shy away from talking about masturbation. It has proven health benefits like promoting better sleep and relieving stress, but we still perceive it as a “guilty pleasure”. In fact, 90% of Indians masturbate according to the recent data shared by Statista. Yet, no one tells you how to do it right.
Thankfully, times are progressing and people are finally embracing the taboo topic. However, many of us are still unaware of how to climax while masturbating. Toys or fingers, clit play or penetration–you can try every trick in the book to hit the big O. But we want to make sure that you get the happy, happy ending of your dreams, regardless of your chosen path. Coz friend, you deserve to experience heavenly sexual bliss. These five tips will help you take your DIY sexual pleasure game to level 100 and give you a toe-curling orgasm:
Time Your Solo Sesh Right
If you’re new to the world of masturbation, bear in mind that discovering your pleasure points is a trial-and-error process. It might take you a while to understand exactly which buttons to push. So, when you plan your solo sesh, make sure you have the time at hand. Relax, take a deep breath, and be patient while touching yourself. Think of it as a one-time investment. Once you figure out what works for you, there’s no looking back, we promise.
Never Underestimate Clit Play
Your G-spot is a few inches inside the vagina along the upper wall. Finding it in the first go could be a tad bit difficult. But till you get there, you can massage your clit to make your session worth the effort. It’s called the pleasure centre of your vulva for a reason, after all. With a host of nerve endings, the clitoris is extremely sensitive to touch and can lead you to a mind-blowing orgasm.
Don’t Shy Away From Learning
Cash in on one of internet’s best offerings–porn. Disclaimer: While you can use it to get into the groove or to learn a thing or two about self-pleasure, don’t get carried away. Sex and masturbation is not as glamm and easy as they portray it in porn. If you want a full-fledged tutorial instead, Google away.
Use Your Fingers
Let your fingers do the work of getting into the deepest caves of pleasure and helping you discover what arouses you the most. You can apply different amounts of pressure and explore different areas. Remember, you’re the one in the driver’s seat here and you can steer your fingers whichever way you like.
Get Wet
Your body’s wired to naturally secrete vaginal fluids when you’re aroused. But sometimes stress or a hormonal shift may inhibit these secretions that play a pivotal role in enabling easy and painless penetration. Enter Sirona’s Moisturising Lube Tube. Made with natural ingredients like Tasmanian pepper fruit and riberry fruit, it can relieve vaginal dryness and help you get the most sensual massage of your life. The best part? It is water-based and is available in strawberry and black currant flavour to take your self-pleasure game to the next level.
Always Be Open To Experimenting
Experimenting with a few sex aids in bed can help you climax. From clit clamps to orgasm rings and vibrators, there’s a whole world of sex toys out there waiting for you to grab them. Don’t worry, shy pal, they arrive at your doorstep in discreet packaging and can turn your world around, we promise. Here are a few beginner-friendly options to help you take the plunge:
Pulse By MyMuse
This vibrator is made with platinum-grade silicone. So you don’t have to worry about Ms Vajayjay’s safety while enjoying your solo date. The best part? It has a curved shape and a two-hour battery backup to make you feel sensations you never knew you could feel.
Nuo By Guptt
How about some hands-free action with a vibrator that can automatically nestle between your butt and vag? Get your hands on this one if you the answer is ‘hell yes’.
Galaxy Vibe Rabbit Vibrator By Lovetreats
Make way for insane pleasure during penetration. This one’s got a “rabbit” shaped piece for simultaneous clitoris stimulation. Our knees are going weak already.
With these products in your kitty and these helpful tips by your side, you’re sure to hit the big O. Enjoy yourself and thank us later.
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