Guys, as has been established time and again, are visual creatures. The easiest way to arouse us is by showing us something appealing. And since we can’t physically be with you all the time, we feel really grateful to modern technology for enabling us to not think of that as a major problem. It’s the age of smartphones and Snapchat – so we can see you and almost feel like we’re with you even when we’re not. And when we’re feeling frisky, that feels like an honest blessing. Because, nudes, ladies! We love the concept because of so, so many reasons. Today, let us try and convey to you why do guys ask for nude pictures…
The goods. We can’t deny we love the subject of the picture – your body! It’s beautiful and alluring and gets us feeling so, so hot! Your body is real and something we can actually visualize touching – and it brings forth our memories of the things we’ve actually done with it. Which is why most of us also find your naked body much more exciting to look at than a stranger’s on the Internet!
The other major reason of why do guys ask for nudes is because it’s thrilling! It’s exciting, it’s secretive, it’s intimate – what’s not to love about nudes? We never thought there would come a day when a phone notification could get our hearts racing, but we were clearly wrong. Just the fact that you’re doing sending us a naughty picture of you makes us feel kind of in control. And it gives us major bragging rights! (Just with ourselves, of course – we wouldn’t share these with anyone!)
And while you might think it’s all sexual for us – it’s not. We ask for nudes, yes, but we don’t always expect to receive them. We know you have to think of all the possible implications of it and we wouldn’t want you to do something you’re uncomfortable with. So when we do actually receive one from you, it makes us feel turned on, sure – but right after that, we feel a lot of gratitude for the trust you placed in us by doing this. That’s what makes the whole thing so intimate!
Just some really effective ways on how to ask for nudes which will almost make them want to send one
Wondering how to ask for nudes from your partner? Don’t worry, we’ve rounded up 8 effective ways to ask for nudes with actually sounding cheap or offending them
1. Establish trust
Haven’t trust, always been the most fundamental element to lead a successful relationship. It has forever been stated the foundation of love, so you should rather think of ways to create ways to take your relationship further- only by establishing trust.
2. Engage in sexting regularly
Remember, never be blunt about nudes. You can’t straight up ask your partner to send her nudes, try to engage your girl by taking your conversation next level and engaging in some sexual stuff. TYeah, I mean sexting. It’ll make way for comfort and bud trust.
3. Know what turns them on
While you engage in some sexting, you can also shot to know about the things that turn her on. This will help you explore the unriveted territory and know more about their sexual personality. You’ll bond better!
4. Talk about how much you love their naked body
It’s important to express your feelings, let them know how much you adore their body- this will help her space out and develop trust and they will no longer hesitate in showing you their body.
5. Make them think it was their idea
Okay, I strictly talk against picturing yourself as a desperate dure. Don’t force your partner into it, let them do it on their own pace. So they know that you never exacted them to, they did out of their own free will.
6. Start with snapchat first
Snapchat’s featuring of expiring pictures gives them a solid assurance that their pictures can’t be misused. This will further develop confidence.
7. Show your appreciation often
Okay, that’s a bummer if you don’t appreciate someone if they do something for you. Everyone demands appreciation, so make it a point to appreciate them more often to go strong and set the flow.
8. Beg for it
Yes, they love it when you beg for it. It’s their kind of high when their man beg for nudes, this makes them feel loved and validated.
We know we have to earn the nudes by earning the trust. And we’ll always keep working on that. And we’ll get there, ladies. We’re determined.
But until that time arrives, please just put up with turning us down the many times we ask. We’re just trying our luck!
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