What Women Want: 10 Ladies Talk About What *Really* Works For Them During Sex

Sex isn’t a ‘one size fits all’ deal. Just like our morning cuppa coffee, we all like it our way. While kisses and cuddles count as great sex for someone, others might prefer going the Fifty Shades Of Grey way. Whatever works for you in bed, we’re here to encourage all your fetishes and fantasies with some real inspo from your fellow gals.

Recently, we got up close and personal with some women and talked to them about what works for them in bed. Read on for the ideas and do try out these tricks to make sex more special for you this Women’s Day. 

It’s All About Mutual Pleasure For Me

“I like my partner checking in with me, instead of just rummaging about trying to finish first. Ways to find mutual pleasure is what turns me on. I just can’t deal with men, who finish their business and forget to return the favour.”

-Meenu Krishna (name changed), 31

Keeping It Mysterious 

“I think it is really exciting when I get a chance to use blindfolds. It is the anticipation that makes love-making all the more fun.”

-Mehak Sharma (Name changed), 26

Foreplay Is The Real Deal

“For me, foreplay is really important. I love it when my partner goes down on me. It gets me really aroused before the act.”

-Shireen Kochar, 30

I Like It Wet n Wild

“I like it a little rough. So, I add in some lubrication with the Sirona Moisturising Lube Tube to keep it pain-free and full of pleasure. It really takes things up by several notches. BTW, it’s also what made way for great anal play in my life.”

-Gauri Arora, 30

Eye Contact Is The Key 

“I don’t enjoy sex unless I feel connected to my partner. Eye contact is what really works for me. Lots of slow kisses and saying romantic sweet nothings can just take it to the next level.”

-Dipannita Malhotra, 34

Role Play Is Hot

“I’ve been married to my partner for almost a decade now. Role-play helps keep the spark alive. It makes me feel like there’s something new to look forward to and for me, that’s exciting.”

-Diya Jain, 36

Making It Rough

“Pulling my hair, but not too roughly. Biting my neck, but not too harshly. I like a combination of passion and aggression in bed.”

-Megha Saha, 29

Being Told That You Are Desired

“When my man whispers romantic things in my ear while making love, it really turns me on. Nothing is better than being told you’re desired and special during the act.”

-Suhani Garg (name changed), 30

An Erotic Massage Can Really Get Things Going

“A massage by my partner works wonders. It helps me relax and, of course, I love his hands on my body.”

-Ritika Bhandari, 29

It’s All About Creating The Right Mood

“Scented candles, dim lighting, romantic music, a glass of wine, and a great conversation. It sets the tone right for what’s to follow. To me, this is a form of foreplay.”

-Megha Pahwa, 26

Consent Is Hot

My partner literally asked if he could take off his denim when we got in bed for the first time. That was hot! He always takes my consent before trying something new and constantly checks on me while we are at it. It makes me feel so loved, respected, and cared for.  

-Kriti Khurana, 30

Feeling inspired, already? Try these and drop in a little thank you message if they work. 

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