One of the most annoying parts about modern-day dating is not knowing what is going to happen next in your love life! We live in a world where endless romantic options are available at our fingertips, but those very options can also complicate things. One of the most dreaded things, when you are dating, is getting ghosted.
Before we talk about the signs of ghosting, let’s talk about what it is. In simple words, ghosting means when someone disappears from your life without a reason. Imagine this: you swiped right on a wonderful person, you went out on the perfect first date and then they completely cut off all contact from you. The worst part is, you’ll never even have an explanation.
There are a few ways in which you can tell if the person you’re dating is about to ghost you! We are here to help you to avoid heartbreak…
They Send You One-Word Replies
One-word texts are never good! If you start getting one-word responses to your messages, it is time to brace yourself for being ghosted. Sure, people can get busy and they might not have time to text. However, if it happens way too frequently, it is not a good sign.
You Always Initiate A Conversation
Ever heard the phrase “if they wanted to, they would”? Maybe at one point, he/she was the one pursuing you, but if you find yourself always reaching out first, it means you might get ghosted. If this is happening to you, then the first thing you need to do is test it out. Don’t text, call or reach out in any way, observe what happens next. You’ll have your answer soon enough.
Your Dates Are Awkward
First dates are awkward, there is no denying that. However, if this pattern continues…You might get ghosted It is best to have an open discussion with your date to avoid getting hurt.
They Always Have An Excuse
No matter what you say or plan, they always have an excuse ready for everything! The most common excuses are, ‘I am not feeling up for it,’ ‘work is crazy busy,’ ‘my friends have made a plan on the same night’. These excuses usually are a harbinger of ghosting.
They Don’t Want To DTR
Whenever you want to talk about the relationship or have a DTR convo, they change the topic instantly. A person who is getting ready to ghost you won’t talk about the future of the relationship. Moreover, they will make you feel guilty about having doubts.
They Play Hot and Cold
There are days when they will be all over you. However, after a while, they will stop paying you any attention. This erratic behaviour is a sign that they are not ready to commit and are likely to ghost you.
They Won’t Introduce You to Friends
Meeting friends is a big step in a relationship. This is the reason why one of the most obvious signs of getting ghosted is their refusal to involve you in their lives. To be blunt, this means…you aren’t important enough for them or they don’t see a future with you.
They Are Always Cancelling plans
If they cancel plans constantly, then is not a good sign. It is an obvious red flag when the person you are dating is ditching you all the time.
They Have Ghosted You In The Past
This might seem obvious, but people tend to miss out on this crucial sign. If you have reconnected with someone who had ghosted you in the past, it is important to understand that it can happen again. If they are not willing to give you any explanation or talk about it, it is a bad sign.
Even if you do get ghosted, just remember to keep your head up high, put on a smile and brush it off! You deserve better.
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