First of all, speaking on behalf of men everywhere, any attention or pleasure you provide to our bodies is always welcome. If it were a simple questions of picking between sex and blow jobs, our answer would be any, either, both – whatever we can get! But if you ask us to really break down how we feel about the two, here’s what we think!
1. A For Effort
Sex: No matter what position we’re doing it in, it requires a lot of effort on our part. We’re SO not complaining, just stating that there is just physical labour and a lot of conscious decision-making required.
Blow jobs: Zero effort. Getting a blow job basically means we just sit back and enjoy the experience. We don’t need to use any part of our bodies – after all, even our brains shut down at this time.
2. When It Comes To Skill
Sex: Sex is a human instinct. You just know how it works once you get started. The skill might lie in how much variation you bring to the table, but not in the basic act.
Blow jobs: We get that it’s an acquired taste, pun definitely intended. Some girls like it, some don’t, and we’re totally cool with that. It’s not something that comes naturally for some, and that is why the skill of it only lies with partners who’re genuinely trying to bring you pleasure with oral sex.
3. All About Control
Sex: We feel completely in control during sex. It’s all in our hands. We even feel like we have a certain degree of control over you, which is thrilling at most times.
Blow jobs: The moment a woman goes down on us, we’re handing her all the control. The exchange of power is…EXCITING! It’s such a turn-on to be powerless against the wonders of your mouth.
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4. Room For Error
Sex: Sex, while it might be human instinct, leaves a lot of room for error. It’s not only about putting the right parts together, it’s about being open to learning and giving as much as taking. And a lot more. So yes, we feel like people can be good or bad at sex.
Blow jobs: There is room for error, definitely. But unless you start biting (*cringe*) in the middle of it, it’ll still feel like nirvana for us. Because it’s actually a lot like sex…but with the added bonus of your tongue and hands.
5. The Joy Of Sharing
Sex: The whole point of sex is mutual gratification. To see your face and know that you’re feeling exactly what we’re feeling can actually tip us over.
Blow jobs: We’re assuming you’re doing it because you enjoy it, but obviously the pleasure we’re getting out of it is way beyond anything you could be feeling. Which is why, while a standalone blow job is amazing, we would like to think of it as part of the foreplay. Or something we can reciprocate as soon as we recover!
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6. What A Fit
Sex: Your vagina is like a glove, the fit and the tightness we feel is incomparable to anything else. Hands down, the best fit.
Blow jobs: Your mouth feels great when it comes to being wet and great and the suction – definitely the suction. The fit, on the other hand, while it isn’t exact, is what gives you room to manoeuvre and do your thing. It’s also something you have control over – you could make it feel like a tight fit, we know, but there are just so many other things you also make us feel at this point…
7. Wow, Wow And WOW
Sex: Sex, is awesome. Like, seriously awesome. Mindblowingly awesome.
Blow jobs: Blow jobs…are a treat. We crave them more because we feel like we’re being rewarded for being good boys. 😛
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