Bigger Is Not Better: 5 Things To Keep In Mind Before Buying A New Vibrator

When it comes to the world of sex toys, a vibrator is certainly the top contender for the title of ‘best orgasm provider’. The only trouble is, the sheer choices you have can be a little overwhelming for the newbies. NGL, it takes a while to find the one that is just right for you!

Whether you’re just discovering your sexuality or you’ve tried out so many vibrators you could write a whole book—there are still new things to learn and explore. Unintentionally, you might end up making a few mistakes with your vibrator that can damage its shelf-life or cause you harm. Worry not! We’re here to tell you all about the common errors people make while using their sex toys and how to avoid them altogether.

Bigger Is Not Always Better

Even though pop culture might have convinced you that bigger is always better when it comes to sex, the truth is far from it. Different vibrators have different abilities, some are wonderful for clit stimulations, whilst others work better as an oral sex toy. So, figure out what you are looking for in a vibrator before you invest your money. It might take some trial and error, but it is worth the hassle.

Skipping The Post Care

Using a vibrator means you are getting your intimate bodily fluids on the sex toy and you have to be extra careful about that. Taking care of your sex toys is a serious business, not only for your health but also for the longevity of the vibrator. Once you are done, always wash it with soap and warm water.

Sticking With Solo Sesh

Remember what we were taught as kids? Sharing is caring and the same lesson applies when it comes to sex toys. Sure, a solo sesh is fun but trying a vibrator with your partner might make for a far more intimate experience. Sex toys can be like delicious extra toppings on a pizza. Yes, pizza is delicious by itself, but extra topping can surely amp up the taste. So, give it a whirl and thank us later!

Missing Out On The Wonders Of Lube

Write it down and commit it to memory: Don’t skip out on lube while using sex toys. If you are using a vibrator that is all about penetration, then you shouldn’t miss out on the magic of lube—it will make masturbation way more fun. The only rule of thumb you need to remember is never to use silicone lube with a silicon-based vibrator as it will be counter-productive.

Only Picking The Popular Choice

A vibrator is an intimate purchase, so while there’s nothing wrong with asking your friends what they like and looking at reviews, you need to pick what is right for you. Don’t just go by popular choices as picking a sex toy is like picking the perfect bag, just because it looks good on someone, doesn’t mean it will work for you. So, be like a kid in a candy shop, and try different things before you pick what works for you.

So what are you waiting for? Make a note of these tips and treat yourself to some fun!

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