The Ultimate Lube Masterclass: How To Use A Lubricant To Amp Up Your Sex Life

“My vagina gets wet naturally when I’m aroused, why do I need lube?”, asked a friend innocently during a discussion on lubricants. My answer to her and to y’all with similar questions about this underrated sexual aid is simple–you’ll know only when you use it. Yes, your body is tuned to produce its own natural lube in the form of vaginal discharge during sexual activity for easier penetration. However, using additional lube is what can transform your pleasure from good to grrreat. From what is a lubricant gel to how to apply it, here are all the deets on this magic liquid that can amp up your sex life like no other. 

What Are Lubricants?

What is a lubricant gel, you wonder? Well, it’s a thick liquid that can be used to make the vulva, vagina, or anal area wetter. It makes penetration easier and painless by reducing friction during sexual intercourse. Smoother penetration=more pleasure=higher chances of an orgasm. In fact, using lube also reduces the chances of condom breakage. It is non-negotiable during anal play as unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t produce any natural lube. Additionally, it can also be used to insert a menstrual cup or while inserting a sex toy during your fun solo sesh. Plus, it’s a godsend if you don’t get wet naturally due to a hormonal imbalance or any kind of stress. 

How To Use A Lube

“How to apply lubricant for females” is one of the most asked questions on Google. So we’re going to help you seek clarity on the matter right here, right now. Here’s breaking it down for you into five easy steps:

Step 1: Wash Your Hands

The golden rule of enjoying mind-blowing sex is to take adequate safety measures even when you’re planning to get down and dirty. So, start by washing your hands with soap and water to prevent any germ transfer into the vagina. This step can keep infections at bay and keep your vajayjay safe.

Step 2: Sit In A Comfortable Position

Before applying the lube, sit in a comfortable position first. You can squat or keep your legs wide open to reach the vaginal opening comfortably. Make sure you’re composed so that you can carefully apply the liquid to the right area.

Step 3: Apply The Lube

Lubricants should not be applied directly to the genitals. Instead, squeeze a pea-sized amount on your hand, warm it by rubbing with your fingers, and then apply it to the opening of the vagina or the anus. Once done, you’re good to go. You can do this before penetration to enjoy the intercourse to the fullest.

Step 4: Reapply

Feel free to apply some more lube if you think you need more wetness down there. You can insert a clean finger into the vagina to check if you’re adequately wet. You can also do this in the middle of your pleasure sesh. Gradually, you will understand exactly how much lube to use. 

Step 5: Wash

You might want to cuddle in bed and enjoy your post-coital glory a tad bit longer. But don’t forget to wash your intimate area first. You can use a mild soap or a gentle cleanser with water to rinse off all the discharge and lube from your genitals. Pat them dry with a clean cotton cloth and then you can get back in bed again.

Things To Keep In Mind While Selecting A Lube

Now that you know what a lubricant gel is and how to use it, let’s talk about how to choose one for yourself. We’re sure that its multitude of benefits have already convinced you to try one. So here are three things to look for in a lubricant:

It Should Contain Natural Ingredients

Lubricants may be applied only on the opening of the vagina or the anus, but they do end up entering the vaginal or anal canal. That’s why you must stick to a lube that has natural ingredients that do not disturb the pH of your internal organs and cause irritation or infection.

It Should Be Water-Based

Even though oil-based lubricants last longer, water-based ones are safer to use. That’s because they contain fewer chemicals and are friendlier to sensitive genital skin. They also prevent the condom from slipping away during intercourse as they’re not sticky and are overall gentler on your private bits.

It Should Not Contain Toxins

The presence of toxins such as parabens in the lube can cause bacterial and yeast infections in the vagina and your genitals. So always check the ingredient list and make sure that your lube is devoid of such harmful substances.

POPxo Recommends Best Lubricants: Sirona’s Moisturising Lube Tube

This product comes in three different varieties–unflavoured, blackcurrant flavour, and strawberry flavour. All three are made with natural ingredients like Tasmanian pepper fruit, ashwagandha, and aloe vera and do not disturb the natural pH of the vagina. They relieve vaginal dryness, are super gentle on the genital skin, and are safe for frequent use. 

We hope that this article has cleared your doubts about what is a lubricant gel and how to use it safely. Now go on and get your hands on one and have a great sesh in bed. All the best!

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