We know exactly how many times you’ve thought about giving him a hand job, ladies – we’ve been there ourselves, after all. It’s also totally understandable if you’re apprehensive about it! And if you don’t want to wait for practice to make you perfect, we’ve got the solution for you. Go on and let your hands do all the talking with these naughty hand job tips. You’ll know all about how to give the perfect hand job in no time!
1. Hygiene matters!
Maintaining neatly cut nails, and washing and drying your hands properly before you get started is really important, girls. Technique has its own charm, of course, but it amounts to nothing if you don’t do this!
2. Get comfortable
Don’t assume that since you’ll be using only your hands, it doesn’t matter what position you’re in. A good hand job can go on for a long time! Get on your knees or sit cross-legged between his legs – whatever you find more comfortable. And then get started!
3. Lube it up
A little bit of lube goes a long way when it comes to hand jobs. Yes, it makes it really easy to get started and makes sure that he doesn’t feel uncomfortable with the friction in case you go a little fast in your excitement.
4. Pace yourself
The pace of your hand on him matters, of course. Some guys like it fast, some slow. If you don’t know his preference, it’s best to add a bit of variation to the mix. Start off slow, look into his eyes, wait a minute and then give a few faster, more intense strokes, and repeat!
5. Skin on skin
Just because it’s called a hand job doesn’t mean you must only use your hands. Be ready to get a bit touchy feely with rubbing other parts of your body against his too. The added sensation will blow his mind!
6. Let’s play ball
Never forget the balls, ladies! You’ll notice it the first time you move your hands towards them – he’ll practically jump with excitement! Don’t be rough with them, though – it’s a really, really sensitive area. A few light caresses can do the trick!
7. Watch and learn
We know it’s hard work and you’re concentrating on the task at hand, but if you can keep an eye on his reactions and expressions then it’ll really help you get better at this! Just notice what makes him moan and bite his lip – and do more of that!
8. Surprise him!
Catching your guy off-guard with some spontaneous acts can be a huge plus – whether that is actually with the idea of a hand job or the technique you apply. Switch things up by using both hands occasionally, instead of just one, or just touching him with your fingertips for a few seconds, giving extra attention to the head (most guys love that!)… Tiny variations can have major effect!
9. Pillow talk
Once he has finished, don’t consider this adventure over. Give him a few minutes and then ask him a few questions about what he liked and what he would like more of. Don’t feel embarrassed, an open conversation is a great way to know and fulfil your partner’s needs in bed.
10. Learn from the master
This is the sexiest way to learn, ladies, and a bit of an experiment in itself. Ask him to masturbate in front of you because you want to learn from watching how he does it. Make note of the pace, what pushes him over the edge, what he concentrates most on… It’ll be the sexiest lesson of all!
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