A head, the real mouthful, fluting, deep throating – a blow job can be called a million names but eventually, it is only one thing – the sweetest sexual gift you can give your man. While receiving a blow job may be the greatest sex act ever, giving one is pretty satisfying too! The only problem that most women end up facing, is no knowledge of the proper technique. Fortunately, it doesn’t take much to satisfy your man if you know these little handy tricks. So listen up ladies, we’re here to make it all better for you (and your man!) Here’s a guide to giving a blow job – the best one ever!
1. Be Comfortable
First things first. You need to be in a comfortable position. If you’re kneeling on the floor or in a position that’s not really comfortable, you’ll have a difficult time and that discomfort will affect your performance. So get comfortable. Try putting a mat if you have to kneel or better yet, ask him to lie down and get on top of him on a bed. That’s a win-win for both of you!
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2. The Tip
The tip of the penis is the most sensitive part and we all know that more sensitive means more pleasure. This part, called the glans or the head, looks distinctively different from the rest of the member.
Initially, when you’re just starting off, this is the area you need to pay most attention to. The best thing about the tip is that there is minimum chance of choking or coughing. Start by gently kissing the head with wet lips and then slowly take it in your mouth. Just lightly flick your tongue across the head or make circular motions for better results. But remember, always take it slow!
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3. Use Your Hands
Giving a good head is about using everything god’s given you. To make it easier for you and pleasurable for the guy, you should use your hands along with your mouth.
Grab his penis with one hand and slightly massage it before taking it in your mouth. The sensations of your mouth and your hand at the same time are so different that he is going to have a hard time trying not to moan!
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4. It’s More Than The Penis
Do not, I repeat, do not give all your attention just to the dick and completely forget the testicles. They play an important role in making the blow job truly brilliant! Stroke his balls lightly while giving him a blow job. If you’re feeling a little experimental, you can totally go ahead and give them a lick or take them in your mouth. Trust me, it’s not as disgusting as it sounds!
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5. Hot And Cold
Blow jobs are all about sensations and the more you can give him, the better! Since his body is all heated up, cooling him down can actually work wonders. Nerve cells respond to the slightest change in temperature and cool temperatures can electrify and energise a man all over. So here’s a little trick – take an ice cube in your mouth and then slowly move your mouth up and down his member for maximum pleasure. You can try the same with warm liquid. The change in temperatures will totally blow his mind!
Now that we’ve spelt it out, it does not seem that difficult, does it? In the end, any sexual activity is all about enjoying yourself and giving your partner pleasure. Trust us, he’ll be dying to return to it soon!
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Get ready for a hot and happening night!
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