There is no truer statement than the fact that men love blow jobs. There is something tantalising about having the mouth on the penis – it is warm, inviting and the tongue can work wonders like nothing else. It is true that being on the giving end of a blow job may not be as pleasurable as receiving one. But if (and only if) you’re onboard with this act, you can try and make it special for your partner. To do so, there are some things you need to know, which he may never tell you out of shyness or maybe he just feels weird talking about it. But keeping these things in mind will change the game for both of you and ‘blow’ his mind away!
1. It’s Sooo Relaxing!
Blow jobs are extremely relaxing for men. To them, lying back, letting you do all the work feels like a much-needed break they need. Plus, with all that ecstasy they’re feeling, don’t think they’re not enjoying it lying there with their eyes closed. It’s actually a compliment if he seems super relaxed and chill. That means you’re doing something right girl!
2. Tell Him The Ending
Men hate it if you duck out of the way as soon as it looks like they’re climaxing. In their head, it’s just some semen. But they’ll totally understand if you don’t want them to come anywhere near your mouth as long as you tell them of the same. Don’t leave them guessing whether this is just foreplay or the real thing.
3. Magic Is Where The Balls Are
The balls, for men, are absolute magic. They’re the one button you can press for immediate pleasure. So please, no matter what you do, don’t ignore them. Play with them, press them or take them in your mouth – whatever works for you but don’t leave them hanging (pun intended).
4. Things Look Up When You Do
There is something so incredibly sexy and sensual about you on your knees blowing him. And when you look up to make eye contact, it just adds to the pleasure and drives them crazy. Seeing you in all your glory is so raw, wild and sexual that they just can’t help themselves.
5. No Breaks Please
It’s true that the constant sucking can tire your mouth out but don’t break the flow. If your jaw is tiring out, take a break but don’t break the rhythm – your hands can pick up from where your mouth left off. This way his pleasure won’t be hampered as you take a second to breathe, relax and get back to work.
6. Get The Basics Right
If you’re trying to get the little soldier up or if he’s gone a little soft and you want to harden him up again, here’s a secret tip we know works for sure. With your thumb and index finger, press the base of his penis with just as much pressure as you’d use to pinch someone’s cheek without it being painful. That’ll keep the blood where it is supposed to be and the orgasm will be different this way.
7. It’s More About The Sucking
The best thing to do to a dick is to suck it. While licking feels amazing to them, it doesn’t get them closer to the sensation that they want and they’re not going to orgasm from it. So suck it up, girls. Also, no teeth, please!
8. Tip Tops It All
You might have overlooked the tip of the penis but trust us when we say this, you can make him feel things he’s never felt by concentrating on the tip. With your tongue, just swirl around the tip and put it in the hole. The satisfaction you’ll get from hearing him moan will be unmatched.
9. There Is No Such Thing As A Bad Blow Job
Like we’ve said before, the mouth feels warm and inviting on their dicks so don’t be scared to use it. You might be a little inexperienced but they’re going to love it nonetheless. After all, it is all so intimate and sensual. So don’t be afraid that they wouldn’t like it. Plus, if you don’t practice, how will you ever improve?
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