Once a girl is sexually active, she should know everything about what she is doing. While the internet is swamped with information, not all of it is true and a lot of times, we end up believing the wrong information. Well, we are here to help you decipher the truth from a gazillion myths. So, in the name of safe (and ah-mazing) sex, here are 11 blow job myths that every girl should stop believing.
Myth 1: You can’t get STDs from a blow job
While many diseases are transmitted through vaginal and anal sex, a lot of diseases like chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis actually spread due to oral sex.
Myth 2: It’s not a good blow job unless you deepthroat
No, you don’t need to always deep throat while you’re at it to make it amazing for him. There are so many other techniques that make up for a great blow Job.
Myth 3: It’s not ‘sex’
Every couple defines their comfort zone and what ‘sex’ is to them is subjective. Definitions of what sex is for you might be different from what it is for your partner or your friends. It’s surely a sexual activity.
Myth 4: If he doesn’t want a BJ, he is not too fond of you
Well, the poor guy is allowed to have moods swings too, right? Don’t overthink his temporary mood into believing he likes you any less.
Myth 5: Once you start, you can’t stop until he is done
Who made this rule, again? You can stop whenever you like even when or if he is not done. BJ’s are like bonuses during sex and you have absolute control over when to stop giving one, okay?
Myth 6: Every girl loves to give them
Just like any other form of sexual activity, girls can have preferences about giving a blow job as well. To each his own they say and we totally respect it. Some girls like it and some don’t!
Myth 7: You should always swallow
See, there is no rule book to giving a perfect blow job. You swallow if you want to and you don’t if you feel it’s too gross. He will NOT assume anything, regardless!
Myth 8: Blow job is only concentrating on the shaft and head
Well, what about the balls? The thighs and the area around it? Men like you to explore every nook and corner. Some even like you to concentrate around their butt, just saying!
Myth 9: You can get pregnant if you swallow the semen
Ladies, listen up – you CANNOT get pregnant if you swallow the semen. There is no passage that connects your stomach to your uterus. So, please stop believing this.
Myth 10: There is only one position for a blow job
There is a whole variety of positions that you can experiment with except for kneeling down in front of him. You just need to read a little more and experiment even more! *Wink*
Myth 11: Too much spit isn’t good
Just like we said, to each his own. Some guys like it and some don’t. Ask your guy what he likes more and follow him to a happy ending!
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