Well, unlike guys, girls don’t orgasm every time they have sex. For a woman, it’s just not as easy as it is for a man to reach climax – and that kinda sucks. But have you ever wondered what are the best ways to make a woman orgasm? Well, we have…and so we found a thread on Quora about best ways to make a woman orgasm – you have to read it!
1. ‘Talk about turn-ons and fantasies’ – Yeah, that might help.
Franklin Veaux answers on Quora: The difference between people who are good in bed and people who are not isn’t that the people who are good in bed have learned all the techniques or discovered the secret. The people who are good in bed know that everyone is different, so the way you please a person is to listen to that person, talk about that person’s turn-ons and fantasies, and above all else, pay attention to the way that person’s body responds.
2. ‘Make your goal in bed be “have fun”.’ – That’s best for both of you!
George Sawyer answers on Quora: Make your goal in bed be ‘have fun’. More specifically, ‘have fun NOW’. In this moment. Not to get somewhere, not to make something happen. Touch each other the way that feels best now. And now.
3. ‘Figuring out her needs, her sensitivities, and her arousal pattern.’ – A helpful tip, indeed.
Shakti Amarantha answers on Quora: Each woman is different. It means the first and most important step in giving her a great orgasm is figuring out her needs, her sensitivities, and her arousal pattern.
4. ‘Pay attention to places you might not usually pay attention to’ – Now that’s a tricky one, we admit.
Vicky Prest answers on Quora: The body is full of erogenous zones that are begging to be explored! Give her a massage. Run your fingertips lightly over her body. Pay attention to places you might not usually pay attention to, like the backs of her knees, her ear lobes, nape of her neck etc. Pay attention to how she sounds, how she moans and what she’s doing etc. Bring her to an amazing orgasm and she will hopefully return the favour!
5. ‘Find out what she likes, attempt it, ask for feedback’ – That’s a good way to go about it.
Habib Fanny answers on Quora: Here’s an idea: talk to her, find out what she likes, attempt it, ask for feedback, correct your technique, ask for more feedback, and keep going until you’re doing it perfectly. I’ve never yet found a better way.
You can read the full thread here on Quora.
So now we know what are the best ways to get to the big O, huh?