Sweaty bodies, tangled hair and deep breaths – sounds like great sex, right? Ah-mazing sex is one thing that we all have unanimously agreed, comes with time and patience (of course). However, it also comes with knowing how to do the right things at the right time. Sex may get boring after a while, but that’s why we are here to help! Here are some of the best sex tips that will make your bedroom action go from ‘blah’ to ‘aah’ in no time. We swear!
1. Like your body, first!
Women who like and adore their body are most likely to have a better sex life because they are confident of what they bring to the table. If you’re shy or conscious of yourself (or your body), you might not be able to please him as much. If you’re not confident about your own body, then how will he be?
2. Lingerie is the key!
Nothing excites a man more than sexy lingerie… And his excitement will turn you on too. Make sure you wear just that sexy lace or animal print to turn on the heat between the sheets and take him by surprise!
3. Make the most of those tiny ad breaks
Movie marathons? Yeah sure! Watch them on television and don’t let the ad breaks get to you. Make the most of them and tease him. Who knows, you might not even end up finishing the movie and land up on the couch canoodling? *Wink*
4. Try a new position each time
After a few years of being together, coupled may end up having the classic sex-in-the-bed only. But because this has no thrill or excitement, with time, things get boring. Keep the spark alive and try a new position each time in different spots of your house.
5. Role play is the key
One of the fun ways of keeping up the mood is by doing things you have not done before. Role play is something that not only sets the mood but also is something that every man dreams about – excessively!
6. Use edibles while you’re at it
Food and bae! Do we have to say more? Using edible items increases the urge to be with someone twice as much and it’s also a way of being open to new things. Try some whipped cream or chocolate sauce to amp up the fun in the room.
7. Talk the talk
Communication is the key to everything in life including sex. It is important for your partner to know what you like and desire and vice versa. Tell him what your fetishes are and ask him what he likes, this will definitely change the mood for the better.
8. Workouts are really good for your sex life
Believe it or not but workouts actually release endorphins which in turn increase the adrenaline rush in your body. This gives your body much needed energy and increases sexual tension between you and your SO. Also, if you workout right after sex, you are in for a crazy orgasm, girls!
9. Hunt the spot
For many people, it is difficult to orgasm until you find the spot for ultimate pleasure. The game to find your G-spot can be quite exciting and this will create a heat like nothing else will. We promise!
10. Use the lube
Dry sex could be one of the reasons why you’re not feeling the heat. Not having enough lubrication can be a problem and artificial lubes are a great way of fixing it. Experiment with gel lubes. Bonus? They also come in different flavours. Images: Giphy, Shutterstock