We know that sometimes, it can be tough going down on your man. It can feel intimidating to some and well, kind of boring to even think about to others! However, why fear when you have us? Dying to know how to give a blow job and get him more attracted to you than ever before? We’ve got the top ten sizzling blow job tips that will absolutely blow his mind… And yours too! *wink*
1. Get handsy
Don’t let your hands lie limply by your side before a blow job. Begin with running your hands over his penis before moving on to running them over his body. Make sure you use your hands as much as you can, they are of no use by your side, girls!
2. Or use both hands and mouth
While you’re at it, try using both your hands and mouth – at the same time. Yes, a mixture of a blow job and a hand job. Move your hand up and down in rhythm with your mouth and see magic happen for your partner!
3. Focus on the frenulum
An amazing blow job tip the ladies should give a shot! Frenulum is the little area that connects the shaft to the tip of the penis and it is super sensitive to touch. Move your tongue around it to make your man feel orgasmic sensations even before he reaches climax!
4. Choose a good position
You don’t always have to be on your knees and on the floor. Experiment with your blow job positions as often as your experiment with your sex positions. You can have him lie down on the bed while you go down on him, or he could be standing while you kneel on the bed. And if you think you’ve had enough practice, try coming up with your own new experimental blow job position and see how it changes things for you!
5. Don’t forget the top
The topmost part of his penis, also called the meatus, is where you really want to lick him when you give him a blow job. It’s a super sensitive area and can get him super turned on. Place your tongue over it, lightly sucking with medium pressure and you’ll be set for the evening!
- Use the ‘lipstick technique’
In the course of a steamy blow job session, use your hands to move the top of his penis over your lips, almost like you’re applying lipstick. Hence, the name. This is a good way to tease him a bit while also take a quick not-so-obvious break when your jaw begins to feel tired.
7. Grab his hips
Get a hold of that booty, ladies. He will be taken aback by the sudden booty grab but in a super sexy way. Let your fingers circle his curves for a change as you go on blowing his mind with a kinky blow job!
- Use lube
It’s not a bad idea to use lubrication before a blow job. They can actually help both of you enjoy the experience more where you don’t have to worry about creating enough wetness with just your mouth. Make sure you use only water-soluble lubricant meant for blow jobs because it would be entering your mouth.
9. Go the gag-proof way
There is an awesome blow job tip to make him feel like he is going deep, without actually going deep. All you have to do is place the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth while you give him head. When his penis hits the underside of your tongue, he feels like he is going deeper than he actually is! After all, it’s the feeling that counts, right?
Remember, girls, you’re not just pleasuring his body but also his eyes. He can see you and the visuals can do wonders. So move your hips while you’re giving him a blow job. Light slow movements that show how much you really want him!