The magic of the female anatomy is underrated. Popular culture may have you believe that the only way to orgasm is vaginally but if you come down to exploring your body, you’ll find so many ways to pleasure yourself that you’ll be surprised. In fact, it is possible for you to orgasm without even touching your genitals – and that’s where your breasts come in. Nipple orgasm is a very real thing most women could experience if everyone concentrated a little less on penetration and a little more on exploration. To help you experience pleasure like never before, we’re here with a complete guide to nipple orgasm and it’s the b(r)e(a)st!
What Makes Nipple Orgasms Possible?
Nerve endings – a lot of them! We must thank nerve endings for all of our orgasms though. Each of your nipples has hundreds of nerve endings which is what makes them super sensitive to touch and that’s what brings you a lot of pleasure. Stimulating your nipples send off sparks to the same area that is aroused by vaginal and clitoral stimulation – genital sensory cortex.
Women who’ve experienced nipple orgasms have described it to start off slowly and then explode into sensations that spread throughout your body. It is a climax as powerful as it gets. Apparently, a nipple orgasm is especially intense during your periods because your nipples are highly sensitive and tender at the time of the month.
Can All Women Get A Nipple Orgasm?
Theoretically, yes! So can all men. But like with everything else in sex, there is trial and error involved to figure out what you like and what you don’t. For your male partner, if they’re interested and open to it, give it a go. Who knows, they might experience something they’ve never experienced before.
How To Get A Nipple Orgasm?
1. Mood Matters
Mood setting is a must when it comes to any type of orgasm. Your mind needs to be free of any and all distractions. So light some candles and put on some mood music both of you can enjoy. This will take you to a zone full of pleasure and you’ll climax easily.
2. No Judgement Zone
Everyone’s bodies are different but all bodies are normal. Don’t be conscious of how you look – it’ll only be a hindrance in the pleasure. Your boobs may be saggy or you may have stretch marks but all these things are as natural as they can be. Your partner appreciates your body for how it is so don’t cover up or be too conscious.
3. Fantasize
A good way to get in the mind frame is to fantasize. No, we’re not asking you to think of other men while you’re with your partner, just things that feel good to you, especially when you’re alone. Think of naughty things you want to do and naughty ways you want to do them. Instant turn-on!
4. Dirty Talk, Maybe?
Dirty talk is a sure shot way to get your partner in the mood. Whisper dirty things you want to do to them or things you want them to do to you. Almost instant arousal!
5. Tease Yourself
If you’re alone, or with your partner, you need to touch yourself too. While masturbating, find out what works for you by trying out different techniques. When you’re with your partner, you can focus on different areas of the body as they give all their attention to your boobs!
6. Focus On Both Of Them
You have two breasts and you need to focus on them both. So, while he’s biting or sucking on one, you (or he) can play with the nipple of the other. This will only speed up the things and make them more pleasurable.
7. Put The Mouth To Good Use
Sucking, nibbling, licking or blowing on your breasts can be extremely erotic and pleasurable. So ask your partner to put his mouth to good use and you can do the same to him. Have him flick his tongue on the nipple, suck them or if you’re into it, bite them lightly. The sensations will be just wow!
8. Focus On The Areola
Your areola, the dark area around the nipples is more sensitive than the nipples themselves. Licking them can drive you off the edge, especially the top half which is extra sensitive.
9. No Biting…
…Unless it is asked for. Your nipples are extremely sensitive and while nibbling may feel good, biting can be downright painful to the person. Some women are into rough sex play so as you go along increasing the pressure, but make sure to let your partner know if you’re comfortable with it or not.
10. Remember, All Boobs Are Different
Just like all bodies, all breasts are different. Also, research has shown that bigger breasts are less sensitive than smaller ones because the nerve endings are spread out. So, ensure that you spend a good deal of time trying to get to know your or your partner’s breasts. Once you’ve discovered what works, it’s Sin City from there! *wink*
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