We’ve all been in a situation at least once where we were so confused if the guy was into us or not. For a gender that claims to be very easy to understand, men sure can be extremely difficult to see through especially when it comes to their feelings. They don’t believe in saying out loud what they’re thinking and that just makes us lose our minds a little by overthinking the tiniest little things they’ve said or done. And how is it fair? Nobody wants to feel like they are being taken for a ride or that they are being treated only as an option. But these days, such is dating – filled with mind games and mixed signals. So here we are, helping you decide what his signals might mean.
1. Tells you he likes you but doesn’t have time for a relationship.
Girl, if he says this to you, you need to run as far away as possible. If he says this, it only means that he wants the benefits of a girlfriend without the commitment. If you’re already giving him some ‘benefits’, it’s time you took them back because, let’s be honest, he’s only here for them.
2. Texts you all the time but never plans to meet up
Maybe he likes you a little but he does not see any chemistry between you two. It can also be like he doesn’t see any future with you but enjoys having conversations and flirting with you. But you should know that this is all that there is going to be.
3. Calls/texts you once in a really long while
This one is really easy. He just wants to know whether or not you’re still available to him or not. After all, he wants to have a backup and in his head, you are a pretty good one.
4. Only calls/texts you late at night
He’s only physically attracted to you, period. You are his refined version of a booty call. He does not want to get together with you emotionally and does not want to have a serious relationship.
5. When he says he only wants to be friends but flirts with you
Now that he’s made it clear that he only wants to be friends, he thinks he can flirt and have some fun with you. After all, he made his intentions pretty clear, didn’t he?
6. When he reaches out to you suddenly after seeing you with someone else
Now that you’re showing interest in someone else, he feels insecure. He obviously likes the thrill of the chase more than the satisfaction of the catch. Now, he just wants what he cannot have.
7. When he goes cold after a few dates
He was interested in you but now the interest has fizzled out. It could also be possible that he’s found someone he’s more attracted to – after all, you were just dating and not exclusive!
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