While you’re physically involved with a man, dressing up…or down, is not your only role. There are a lot of things both of you need to do to keep the fire burning. While you’re at it, make sure you are not doing the following. Here are 10 things that make sex boring – don’t say we didn’t warn you!
1. No foreplay
Sure quickies are fun but not all the time. It’s great to indulge in a good foreplay session every once in awhile. Sex without foreplay gets a tad boring in the long run!
2. Not initiating sex on your own
We all like it when someone initiates sex but no one likes to do it every time. Be the one to initiate sex as much as your partner to keep the spark alive.
3. Being super shy
Of course, if you are shy you can’t immediately change that but you will eventually get comfortable with your partner and that’s when you should shed your inhibitions. Let him explore you while you explore him.
4. No pillow talk
You know what they say, the best sex is sex with feelings. Pillow talk post sex make it very intimate. You not only feel very connected to that person but sex feels great otherwise too! You will always keep looking forward to it.
5. Doing it in the same position
You can’t eat the same food daily so why do the same position over and over again? Try out a different position each time to make every time a little more magical than the previous one.
6. No dirty talking
Dirty talking makes everything way more fun! Which is why sex without dirty talk gets boring. If you miss out on the dirty talking game a lot,then it’s time to make a few changes!
7. When you don’t participate equally
Okay, you don’t want to be lying there without any participation. If you’ve got moves, show him. Nobody wants to make love with no response!
8. Doing it just for the sake of it
Never have sex just because you have to. It is totally okay to say no to it. It is only when both of you are in the mood for sex that you can make the most of it!
9. Not being curious about sex
Curiosity does not always kill the cat. If you’re not curious about sex, you won’t want to know more about it. If you won’t know about it, you won’t try great things which will make sex quite a moo point! (Whatup F.R.I.E.N.D.S. reference?!)
10. Not making your partner anticipate sex
You know what’s sexy? Sending flirty messages in the day to tell him how much you’re waiting. Or look up a great thing on the internet and send it to him just to tell him how much you’re thinking about it. It makes sex SO exciting!
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