Who said games are only for kids? Want to spice up things in bed and experiment with something new? Try some of these kinky games and make things steamier and hotter in bed with your husband. Here are 11 sexy games to spice up your sex life after marriage!
1. Naughty Cards
This is a fun sex game to play with your partner and it requires a normal deck of cards. Assign each suit a sexy activity. For instance, hearts mean kissing, spades mean stripping, diamonds mean massage and clubs mean using a sex toy. Stack the cards facing downwards and blindfold your partner and let him choose one card. Once he picks up a card, check which suit he has picked and start by performing the sexy activity. The number on the card denotes the number of minutes you need to perform the activity. For instance, if your partner picks up a six of diamonds, it means you need to give him a massage for six minutes. Once done, it is your turn to get blindfolded and pick a card.
2. Red & Green Light Game
In this bedroom game, just like the rules of a traffic signal – red means stop and green means start/ go. Out of you and your partner, one will be in control and will say ‘green light’ when they want to be touched and will start counting backwards from 20. Once they reach zero, the partner touching needs to stop or take a punishment. The objective of the game is to make the person counting forget their count and thus prolong the experience.
3. Would You Rather Game
Remember the age old ‘would you rather’ game? Well, give that game a kinky twist by asking your partner naughty questions followed by doing the answer that your partner has chosen. For example, you could ask your partner, ‘would you prefer a lap dance or a blowjob?’ If his answer is a lap dance, it means you should treat him with the same. You could make the choices interesting by including new sex positions or fantasies.
4. Guess The Object
Blindfold your partner and start touching them with various different objects and things. You could use a feather, a fruit, whipped cream or anything else that comes to your mind. The partner who is blindfolded needs to guess the object. If guessed rightly, they get rewarded, and if the guess is wrong, they get punished.
5. Master Says
In this sex game, you are the master and your partner must do and act as you wish. The only trick in this game is that the master needs to say, ‘master says’ before any order and if they don’t say that, you are entitled to give them a punishment. You can have lots of sexy orders as a master and make this game fun!
6. Roll The Dice
For this bedroom game, you need a piece of paper and a dice. Both you and your partner will write actions to correspond with the numbers. For example, 1 = foot massage or 2 = go down on me. You both get a turn each to roll the dice and whatever number comes, your partner has to perform the corresponding action.
7. Truth Or Dare
No matter what you both choose, truth or dare, you both are going to have a great time together. Let a few glasses of wine set the mood and after that, use that bottle to spin and start the game. On choosing truth, you both could ask each other their secret fantasies, and if it’s a dare, go wild, we say.
8. Seven Minutes In Heaven
Enter your dressing area or any other confined and small area of your bedroom. Turn off the lights and start kissing each other. The rule of the game is that none of you are allowed to speak and can continue doing whatever you both want for 7 minutes. The confined space along with the lack of lighting will make this sex game even sexier.
9. Role Play
Role playing is an exciting way to boost your sex life and heat up things in the bedroom. If you have a thing for men in uniform, then have your man dress up as a policeman and you could dress up as a sexy nurse for your partner. The rule of this sex game is that both of you need to perform ‘in character’ and the one who does not, gets punished.
10. Strip Poker
It is an old bedroom game but is one which always works. Start with equal number of clothing on both of you and start removing your items one by one whenever either of you lose a hand. Don’t stop the game once you both are naked, spice it up more by performing sexual acts whenever either of you lose a hand.
11. A Week Of Intimacy
This game will guarantee the two of you 7 days of uninhibited fun in bed. All you both have to do is to write down three things each you both would want to try together. Put these options in a box and shuffle the chits. Draw one chit every night and whatever comes out has to be done. This sex game will also familiarize both of you with each other’s fantasies and desires.